7. How to maintain my Ladies Man-isity/THE DATE!

7. Well, now you must keep your stride. Keep doing all the same things you're doing and if you not getting the ladies by now ... I don't know what could be holding you back so GMail me some requests on blogs to do that you feel can help you-no need to worry I will keep this anonymous. Moving onward with the date(:, go in there for the kill. Get to talking on the phone maybe 2-3 days, ask her out! You've already got "the conversation" & "the look" so there's no way you can't rock this date. Plus, if you read the last blog (&listen to your advisor) you would've already gone on a couple of free-lance dates (my way of saying.: easy-going dates). So you should be good to go with the nervous-jitterbug thing. Now call her, have a talk like you normally would with the gal, ease on into a nice & quick.: Hey, what are you doing (day of the week)? Or maybe try.: So what's on your schedule for ____? Catching my drift? Hopefully(:. Further along with this encounter, she will say what days she's free or whatever type of answer applies to your question wording. She might say something like.: "Oh, I'm sorry. I'm busy." You can typically tell in the tone of her voice if she is seriously busy or just doesn't want to go on a date with you. She possibly could suggest another day to do re-schedule, that's how you know she's into it. But if she just says Sorry, busy. DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME with her! All she's doing is playing with your emotions to see how bad you really want to date her. She also could just be really nervous though, if so just play it off as your fine with it. In the mean time work on your how you'll act on the date, and what you'll do. For a regular 1st date with a girl you've just met I suggest the movies. It won't be a big deal you can get the snacks and head on into your theatre room and have a seat. Oh, and just to let you know- you should pay for the tickets. No excuses guys, just do what I say. Are you in dyer need of cash? Well get a JOB, you don't have to be rich but you shouldn't be broke. Unless your like 10 or something, still save up your allowance or chore money. Whatever you do don't make her pay for your ticket, it's okay to split it but wait until the next movie date okay. Keeping the train rollin', if you want a date where you can get to know eachother a little more try a walk in the park, mini-golf, skating, a coffee shop or walking the beach. That's really sweet, especially on "couples' skate". But when you finally get that date schedule the ride, the time- basically everything you need to know about this date. Don't act pushy though, girls don't like to be rushed at all.  If you ride home together walk her to her door,( remember open the car door too). If you both aren't really feeling it don't do it. But don't not do something because your scared to... Ps.: While in the movies definitely sit in the seats beside eachother, put your arm around her no corny yawns or any of that (:. Walk out holding hands and ask how she thought it went. Keep it compfortable-stay far away from awkward. In the park hold hands (the key to holding hands is when she doesn't notice grab her hand gently and lock fingers if your hands are sweaty - wipe 'em off and give it a whirl) walk at a regular pace, & mini-golf let her know it's okay to be kinda rusty (: tell her try again or your good enough for me. Skating talk and relax in a calm matter, it's okay to fall as long as you make it funny or make sure she's okay. Park & beach - same rules apply. Now go get her! I believe in you champ! (: Feel free to comment & FTT!!! <3

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