#8! Getting the kiss. :-*

8. Hey guys! I hope everything is working out for you-lets move on with todays' lesson. Now that you've gone on a date or a couple, the questionable part is getting the kiss right? This is where I come in(:! So what you want to do is once you know she's definitely comfortable after the date (example) the movies- what you'll do is if you see a romantic movie you'll sit really close some-what cuddling. Not awkwardly, keep it cool-calm and collected.(: There should be a part in the movie where the girl & guy kiss of course! When they do-look into her eyes and give a gentle sweet peck on the lips. Don't worry about which way you go it'll work itself out. As long as your confident you can do it. It shouldn't last forever unless your both really into it? So give her a quick kiss and not lip-locking yet just a peck. Pull back slowly. If her eyes are still closed, she loved it. If her eyes were open the whole time she wasn't feelin' it. Also while you kiss keep one hand resting with your finger tips on her neck and your at the top of her jaw-still this should be soft. If your younger and too nervous to do that just do a kiss on the cheek. That's good enough. ATTENTION! Before you kiss her.: Chew a mint, put on some Chapstick, and lean right. Possibly left, they ladies usually follow your lead buddy! If your on a different type of date just pick anytime to look into those eyes and make her fall for you. I can't really for sure tell you when to kiss, you'll know when the it's the right moment. About 80% of the first kisses happen at the end of a date, if that's the way you want to go-Hey, whatever your preference. I'm behind you 100%! (: PLEASE Gmail me any questions at all @ thaBLOGGER@Gmail.com. FTT <3!!!

This is good, her hands are gently placed & their eyes' are closed. Perfect.

7. How to maintain my Ladies Man-isity/THE DATE!

7. Well, now you must keep your stride. Keep doing all the same things you're doing and if you not getting the ladies by now ... I don't know what could be holding you back so GMail me some requests on blogs to do that you feel can help you-no need to worry I will keep this anonymous. Moving onward with the date(:, go in there for the kill. Get to talking on the phone maybe 2-3 days, ask her out! You've already got "the conversation" & "the look" so there's no way you can't rock this date. Plus, if you read the last blog (&listen to your advisor) you would've already gone on a couple of free-lance dates (my way of saying.: easy-going dates). So you should be good to go with the nervous-jitterbug thing. Now call her, have a talk like you normally would with the gal, ease on into a nice & quick.: Hey, what are you doing (day of the week)? Or maybe try.: So what's on your schedule for ____? Catching my drift? Hopefully(:. Further along with this encounter, she will say what days she's free or whatever type of answer applies to your question wording. She might say something like.: "Oh, I'm sorry. I'm busy." You can typically tell in the tone of her voice if she is seriously busy or just doesn't want to go on a date with you. She possibly could suggest another day to do re-schedule, that's how you know she's into it. But if she just says Sorry, busy. DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME with her! All she's doing is playing with your emotions to see how bad you really want to date her. She also could just be really nervous though, if so just play it off as your fine with it. In the mean time work on your how you'll act on the date, and what you'll do. For a regular 1st date with a girl you've just met I suggest the movies. It won't be a big deal you can get the snacks and head on into your theatre room and have a seat. Oh, and just to let you know- you should pay for the tickets. No excuses guys, just do what I say. Are you in dyer need of cash? Well get a JOB, you don't have to be rich but you shouldn't be broke. Unless your like 10 or something, still save up your allowance or chore money. Whatever you do don't make her pay for your ticket, it's okay to split it but wait until the next movie date okay. Keeping the train rollin', if you want a date where you can get to know eachother a little more try a walk in the park, mini-golf, skating, a coffee shop or walking the beach. That's really sweet, especially on "couples' skate". But when you finally get that date schedule the ride, the time- basically everything you need to know about this date. Don't act pushy though, girls don't like to be rushed at all.  If you ride home together walk her to her door,( remember open the car door too). If you both aren't really feeling it don't do it. But don't not do something because your scared to... Ps.: While in the movies definitely sit in the seats beside eachother, put your arm around her no corny yawns or any of that (:. Walk out holding hands and ask how she thought it went. Keep it compfortable-stay far away from awkward. In the park hold hands (the key to holding hands is when she doesn't notice grab her hand gently and lock fingers if your hands are sweaty - wipe 'em off and give it a whirl) walk at a regular pace, & mini-golf let her know it's okay to be kinda rusty (: tell her try again or your good enough for me. Skating talk and relax in a calm matter, it's okay to fall as long as you make it funny or make sure she's okay. Park & beach - same rules apply. Now go get her! I believe in you champ! (: Feel free to comment & FTT!!! <3

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#6 The call.

#6. Like a big Doe-Doe I just deleted an hours worth of blog. On that note how about we make this short and simple. You're playing hard to get my friend. So find a lady friend that you can easily talk into going on a date with you for practice, this way it will help with your nervous-ness. If you keep asking the same type of girl and she says no-you could be aiming sort of high. Lower your standards, plus if you start off slow it can help increase your confidence. Now the girl might text you first-notice I said text cause ladies tend to be just as nervous as you. Wait about 5-8 minutes before you text back you definitely don't want to look desperate. Now if your texting take it step by step and just talk with an everyday conversation. If she calls you first then she's not shy. Let it ring 3-4 seconds. Don't make it look like you've been waiting on it all day-that's creepy. Just answer with a nice Hey, how are you. That will be fine and just keep it going. You can start to tell her about yourself but remember keep it brief and simple-we aren't telling her our life story. Save that for another day. Well, I better get going long day tomorrow. So this ought a hold ya. Peace Out! Keep reading& FTT = follow that Twitter!!!(: @Girl_BloggerGA

The 5th posting for your road to success... Conversation.

               Yahh, we're past the hygiene part now! (Unless you have more questions...)

5. So, since you have now started to walk that road I call success- lets talk about conversations. You have to talk sometime, break the ice for the both of you! Don't forget the confidence, go up to her with a smile and pep in your step. Be careful with that ego though just because your confident doesn't mean you should be a jerk. Onward, you want to try to start off a conversation with a statement. I know your probably thinking "Wtf? I figured I'd ask questions." But studies show, if you say to a lady for example.: " I bet you use Suave conditioner." She can reply with a better answer, she could possibly just say "yep" but in most cases she would expand her statement by explaining why she does this. But this doesn't just give you an open door to walk up to her high and mighty to start talking about her hair products. Definitely introduce yourself with a regular.: "Hi, my name is BOB. What's yours?" Or a different route for the non-shy type.: "Wow, sorry but I couldn't help but notice your lovely smile." You'd say this after a glance, then a double look. She'll for sure be impressed with this-that's when you move in & introduce yourself to seal the deal. (keep comfy body language-hands in back pockets or like in the picture) Afterward, make sure you open every door for her. Not to the restroom though, I'm sure she can handle it;). Now your going into this thing with open arms, don't be nervous-you got this. At this time-make simple conversation. Nothing forced, just chill out, smile softly, and make her feel comfortable. Make sure you chat with her-about her, dont start talking about how much you love pitbulls and Chevy trucks. Ask her how she is, how did her day go? If she's sweet enough she'll ask you the same, reply with.: "Fine (or) good, thanks for asking." It's okay to say a little about yourself like.: "Long day but it all paid off." (or) "Same ole, same ole." If she asks more questions answer politely&respectibly, don't tell her your entire life story. Now, your in there. Closing it up, asking her simple questions and you'll be able to tell when she's glad you've talked. You should be able to work up some confidence to ask for number, if you don't want to do that-give her yours. This way if she calls you'll know she thought you were a cutie.  Remeber be smooth. If you get it, GREAT! Good job sport! Hug her and tell her I'll talk to you later. If you don't get it, it's fine hun, move on to the next one cause she wasn't worth it anyway. On the other hand wait atleast a day before you text/call her. BTW- this convo. shouldn't last longer than 5 minutes tops. (unless it's a talkitive girl or things just keep getting better for you two)

Let's stop here, i'll be back tomorrow. I think your good to go dude!(: Follow my Twitter.: @Girl_BloggerGA
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4th Advisory. Check this out...

4. Wash your hair atleast every 2-3 days I'd say-use Head&Shoulders, it works for basically any men's hair. I know everyone has a different hair type but say a girl wants to hug you or touch your hair, if she runs her fingers thru that she'll think.: "Eww, he obviously isn't clean!" On that note, put some coconut grease in your hair-gel-or wave cream. This way incase you haven't washed your hair lately (which I suggest do) then she probably won't notice. BTW please don't go overboard with the gel, she doen't want a spikey hair ninja. You should also wash your face when you wake up & before you go to sleep. I suggest Noxzema, Clearasil (etc.) they should do the job. If you have a serious acne condition... consult with your doctor. Sorry, can't help you there. Moving on, glasses. If your like me you wear contacts on the regular but glasses to sleep (etc.)& that's cool, but contacts are so much easier than glasses. Especially if you play sports, you won't have to worry about them falling off or getting crushed. <3

That's the 4th tip gang!!(: Glad you decided to read. FOLLOW THAT TWITTER! @Girl_BloggerGA

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My 3rd Tip(: for your Ladies Man-ness!!

3. Try not to wear regular store-brand shoes...? I know sometimes economic situations are tough but if so try to stick to Converse. They're a plain & simple type of tennis-shoe that doesn't tend to be expensive. I know everyone has their own style but it's always better to begin simple. A girl like me doesn't really need a guy with tons of money or extremely nice materialistics, but a guy who can present himself with class, dignity, and gentleman-like expression. Stay in the range of washed out jeans or dark denim to preserve your tough-boy instinct (LEVIS) , really any kind of basic tee is fine. Like sayings on a shirt or a picture of sunglasses. <(RANDOM THOUGHT). Don't wear a shirt with a weed leaf on it please, you might attrack the wrong type of female. Flannel, definite plus! Flannel can work for a lot of different body types, try not to get huge bold prints though. It can get to be a tad much.(:

Once again, pleaasseed to help if your reading this. <3 Hope my opinion is worth something to you. Stay tuned and comment. Remember follow the Twitter.: @Girl_BloggerGA

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My 2nd posting to help You... The man;) become a ladies man!!!

2. Now that we're getting hygiene out of the way... it's handy to keep mints in your pockets at all times. This way in case you meet a girl...-actually just have them to come off as you have good hygiene and you know that you can keep a good impression and not worry about how your breath smells. One word, Chap stick. If you have Chap stick your lips always stay hydrated. You never know when someone might want smooches from the man(:.

I'll keep you posted, don't forget to add my Twitter.: Girl_BloggerGA. You can also email or direct message me with any personal questions. --On that note GirlBlogger-GuyAdvisor OUT!

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Guys.: Here's the 1st tip of advice I'm giving to YOU to help you become a ladies man.

Check it Fella's.:
1. Always keep a fresh haircut. It doesn't matter whether you have long wavy locks or a short picked out Afro- as long as it's trimmed, lined up, or anyway your hair looks nice(:. Actually, I'm just a fan of groomed hygiene in general! So stay clean, take showers everyday and please brush your teeth. No one wants to talk to a guy with bad breath. Don't forget the deoderant and the lotion. You shouldn't smell or be ashy...(:

Well guys, looks like I'm signing out for today. I'll definitely keep you posted... as long as you follow this blog. You'll be a better man/boy/teen guy thing in no time(:.   -Hit the Gmail for personal questions... <3!

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