The 5th posting for your road to success... Conversation.

               Yahh, we're past the hygiene part now! (Unless you have more questions...)

5. So, since you have now started to walk that road I call success- lets talk about conversations. You have to talk sometime, break the ice for the both of you! Don't forget the confidence, go up to her with a smile and pep in your step. Be careful with that ego though just because your confident doesn't mean you should be a jerk. Onward, you want to try to start off a conversation with a statement. I know your probably thinking "Wtf? I figured I'd ask questions." But studies show, if you say to a lady for example.: " I bet you use Suave conditioner." She can reply with a better answer, she could possibly just say "yep" but in most cases she would expand her statement by explaining why she does this. But this doesn't just give you an open door to walk up to her high and mighty to start talking about her hair products. Definitely introduce yourself with a regular.: "Hi, my name is BOB. What's yours?" Or a different route for the non-shy type.: "Wow, sorry but I couldn't help but notice your lovely smile." You'd say this after a glance, then a double look. She'll for sure be impressed with this-that's when you move in & introduce yourself to seal the deal. (keep comfy body language-hands in back pockets or like in the picture) Afterward, make sure you open every door for her. Not to the restroom though, I'm sure she can handle it;). Now your going into this thing with open arms, don't be nervous-you got this. At this time-make simple conversation. Nothing forced, just chill out, smile softly, and make her feel comfortable. Make sure you chat with her-about her, dont start talking about how much you love pitbulls and Chevy trucks. Ask her how she is, how did her day go? If she's sweet enough she'll ask you the same, reply with.: "Fine (or) good, thanks for asking." It's okay to say a little about yourself like.: "Long day but it all paid off." (or) "Same ole, same ole." If she asks more questions answer politely&respectibly, don't tell her your entire life story. Now, your in there. Closing it up, asking her simple questions and you'll be able to tell when she's glad you've talked. You should be able to work up some confidence to ask for number, if you don't want to do that-give her yours. This way if she calls you'll know she thought you were a cutie.  Remeber be smooth. If you get it, GREAT! Good job sport! Hug her and tell her I'll talk to you later. If you don't get it, it's fine hun, move on to the next one cause she wasn't worth it anyway. On the other hand wait atleast a day before you text/call her. BTW- this convo. shouldn't last longer than 5 minutes tops. (unless it's a talkitive girl or things just keep getting better for you two)

Let's stop here, i'll be back tomorrow. I think your good to go dude!(: Follow my Twitter.: @Girl_BloggerGA
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